Lifestyle Blog
Lifestyle guides, safety tips, and blog posts to help open-minded adults get the most from SpicySwingers.
Welcome to SpicySwingers: Here's What We're Building
SpicySwingers is the UK's free lifestyle community. Free to join, free to message, no paywalls. Here's what we've built, what makes us different, and what's....
Sexual Health in the Lifestyle: The Honest Guide Nobody Gives You
Regular STI testing, where to get tested free in the UK, condoms, PrEP and what to do if you test positive. The sexual health guide every lifestyle couple needs
UK vs USA vs Europe vs Australia: How the Swinging Lifestyle Differs Around the World
The UK is slow-burn and socially led. The US is private and event-driven. Europe is matter-of-fact. Australia is warm and relaxed. Here's how the swinging scene
Lifestyle Travel: The World's Best Destinations for Swinging Couples
Cap d'Agde, Hedonism II, Spanish resorts, lifestyle cruises. Here's a guide to the world's best swinging destinations and events, and how to actually book them.
Europe's Most Swinger-Friendly Countries (And What Makes Each One Different)
Germany swings at 3x the European average. France has Cap d'Agde. Denmark has some of the world's biggest clubs. Here's a country-by-country guide to the Europe
Swinging in Australia: What the Scene Actually Looks Like Down Under
Around 10% of Australian couples have tried swinging. Here's what the scene looks like in Sydney and Melbourne, how it compares to the UK and US, and what makes
The American Swinging Scene: Bigger Than You Think and Different Than You'd Expect
Up to 15 million Americans are on the swinging scene. Here's where it's concentrated, how it differs from the UK, and why discretion shapes everything about how
Is the UK Swinging Scene Actually Growing? What's Really Going On
Three series of Open House, Swingathon selling out, 40+ clubs across the UK. Is the British swinging scene actually growing or just getting more visible?
How to Write a Lifestyle Profile That Actually Gets Responses
Most lifestyle profiles are invisible. Here's exactly what to write in your bio, how to handle photos, what to say in first messages, and the one thing that...
Jealousy in the Lifestyle: What It Actually Feels Like and How Couples Handle It
Around 70% of swingers feel jealousy at some point. Here's why it happens, what compersion is, how experienced couples handle it, and when jealousy is a...
The Unicorn: Why Single Women Are the Lifestyle's Most Wanted
What is a unicorn in swinging? Why are single women so rare in the lifestyle, what do couples get wrong when looking for one, and what's it actually like...
How to Bring Up Swinging With Your Partner (Without It Going Horribly Wrong)
Thinking about suggesting the lifestyle to your partner but not sure how to start? Here's how to have the conversation, what to say, what not to say, and how...