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What Reality TV Gets Wrong About the Swinging Lifestyle
Three series of Open House, Swingathon, and growing TV coverage. Here's what the shows get right about the swinging lifestyle and where they miss the mark.
Do Swingers Use Protection? The Honest Answer
Some do, some don't, most have a clear conversation first. Here's what protection use actually looks like in the lifestyle and why regular testing matters.
Best Swingers Clubs in the UK: A Regional Guide
A regional guide to the best swingers clubs in the UK, from Cupids in Manchester to Killing Kittens in London. What each venue is like and what to check before
What Happens When One Partner Wants to Stop Swinging
One partner wants to leave the lifestyle and the other doesn't. Here's how to handle the conversation, what tends to go wrong, and what comes next.
Swingers Club Etiquette: The Unwritten Rules Everyone Should Know
Nobody hands you a rulebook at the door. Here's the etiquette every first-timer should know before visiting a UK swingers club.
Is Swinging Legal in the UK? Everything You Need to Know
Swinging is legal in the UK. Here's what the law actually says about swingers clubs, private parties, consent, and where the legal lines are.
The Difference Between Swinging and Polyamory
Swinging and polyamory are both non-monogamy but they're not the same thing. Here's the real difference and how to work out which fits you.
What to Wear to a Swingers Club: The Honest Guide
What to wear to a swingers club in the UK. Dress codes, themed nights, what to bring to change into, and the one thing that matters more than the outfit.
Dogging in the UK: What It Actually Is and How It Differs From Swinging
What is dogging, is it legal in the UK, and how does it differ from swinging? A straight answer to one of the most Googled questions in the lifestyle.
Single Men in the Lifestyle: Why It's Harder and What Actually Works
Single men have a harder time in the lifestyle than couples. Here's why, what couples are actually looking for, and the approach that gets results.
Age and the Lifestyle: Does It Get Easier or Harder as You Get Older?
Most swingers are in their 40s and 50s. Is that because it gets easier with age, or just because it takes that long to get there? The honest answer.
Staying Safe in the Lifestyle: The Guide Everyone Should Read Before Meeting Someone New
Before you meet anyone from a lifestyle site, read this. First meeting rules, solo meeting advice, consent, what to do if something goes wrong, and the basics..